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Kristine's avatar

I've seen a very similar thing happen at my little American church and a nearby church like it. People join because they like the community or the preaching or whatever, and then a few months later they look around and go, whoa, everybody else here has like 3 or 4 or 5 kids. Kids are everywhere, and they are just a normal thing. A few years go by, and pretty soon that couple that joined is now on baby number 2 or baby number 3 themselves.

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Philip Skogsberg's avatar

Great essay! You kind of rejected the nationalism explanation right away. But a variant that only applies to Israel and not other nationalistic cultures is that most regular, secular, Israeli jews still feel a strong obligation to have children because of the very real existential threat that's ever present. This obligation is probably emphasized both from the bottom up and the top down.

What do you make of that?

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